There is an underlying issue beneath the Health Care Reform argument. The unspoken question is ― where shall we place the balancing point between being entirely self-serving and being entirely communal. Neither extreme works to create a human society. We assess what best serves both of these ends and move toward it with equanimity in respect to the democratic process. But, embedded in that process is a mechanism that unintendedly polarizes opinions. Every issue becomes a tug of war that ultimately induces each side to pull to more and more extreme positions that try to counter-balance the pull of the opposite side. Regretfully, that seems to be human nature. The risk of extreme pulls of position is that one's arguments move to irrational footing and erodes credibility. That has certainly been the case with much of the Health Care Reform issue.
So, rather than responding to the irrational points of contention being manufactured, it may be more beneficial to examine the underlying philosophies that motivate the arguments.
Some people carry around signs that say "No Taxes". That is certainly the ultimate extreme of the self-serving point of view. No taxes means no police, no firefighters, no roads, no military, no public education, and innumerable other foundations of social order. Few people can afford their own private police service, roads, and so on. So, it is self-evident that we agree on certain basic levels of social order and structure.
The opposite extreme is that everything is shared ― every residence, every car, every object. This is also against certain human psychological expectations and needs for stability and self-direction. Who would work to produce anything if there were no compensation for that effort? And yet you don't see people walking around with signs that say "Share Everything".
So, if we don't embrace either extreme, we seek to find the balance that is as inclusive of these opposite ideals as possible, but also are willing to adapt our social agreement when these opposite are mutually exclusive.
We generally accept the democratic principle of the social equality of all citizens ― equal treatment under the law, equal access to public education, equality of voting. Though we have a long way to go to achieve these equalities, we do not philosophically argue against them. But beyond legal rights, there are also the benefits that modern social order extends that make the whole system better for its people. Roadways are a simple example. There are no fundamental inalienable rights to roadways, but they are figuratively the blood vessels that conduct much of the flow of modern living. And so we afford that as a common shared benefit of our society.